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Would I want my daughter to be a porn star? – RGV

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Would I want my daughter to be a porn star? – RGV

I went through all the reactions on my first short film “Meri Beti Sunny Leone Banna Chahti Hai” and as expected,I noticed that its extreme critics are predominantly and majorly only men who were offended by the subject matter of its content..That is understandable because it is only feudal minded men who will be super scared of losing their dominance over vulnerable women and that explains their hyper reaction on the film and that’s what the film is really about anyway …Anyway I chose the most personally offensive comments and below are my replies to them..Also at the end of the replies I posted my sum total thought behind the intention of this film with regard to both its value and it’s validity

Q1. If there’s nothing wrong in showing a naked body on camera, why don’t you get naked on camera?

A. The film is about an individual’s free choice ..Showing myself naked is not my choice but the philosophy of the film is that I should not stop you if you want to show yourself naked

Q2. Will you support it, if your daughter wants to become a porn star?

A. Just because she’s my daughter,I don’t consider me to be her master to order her on what she should do or not do in her life..In the nature driven scheme of things she just happened to be born to me and my wife very much like I myself happened to be born to my parents ..Neither did my daughters parents namely me and my wife nor my own parents particularly had her or me in mind while having sex..This basically means everyone is born to someone only by a nature driven coincidental accident…So whether my daughter wants to be a doctor or engineer or porn star or pilot or soldier or a radical terrorist it’s her choice,because she came into this world to live her own life and not a life as particularly defined by me..At best I can advise or inform her from my experience but the choice and decision has to be hers

Q3. No Girl.. I Repeat, No Girl In Her Realistic Sensibilities Would Want To Do Porn In The First Place.. Let Alone Try to Convince Her Parents..!

A. Sunny leone and thousands of other girls already did and all you have to do is to go into the porn sites to check on your net to see thousands of girls unless you are a tribal living in a forest with no access to the web
4.She commented that her mother gave her naked body only to her dad,but in return her dad give only small money, small house etc..What are you trying to tell here? That marriage is only a BUSINESS TRANSACTION?
Everything is a business transaction in life from politicians spending money for votes to marriage related dowries to cinematic art’s collections to salaries coming to employees from employers

Q5.Women’s “High Value” can also be in goals like politics, law, engineering, mining etc not only sexuality.

A. All those abilities you have mentioned are not gender related ..A man and woman both can do all those what you mentioned ..But nobody will pay to see a man’s thighs and chest and that is the basic and fundamental unique strength of only a certain type of woman and the point of this film is that she’s being undervalued in this regard

Q6.God will punish you for spreading such filth

A. I realised the truth of the philosophy of my short film only from studying God because he was the one who gave the offer of beautiful women like Rambha,72 virgins etc and that is because even he couldn’t think of a better incentive to give men than Beauty and Sex

MY UNDERLYING BELIEF BEHIND MY SHORT FILM
Many many decades ago, men consciously for social reasons or subconsciously for personal reasons assumed upon themselves to culturally change the fundamental validity of their sexual code — family, monogamy, continence, the postulate of privacy and restriction of intercourse to the acceptable norms of various societies. Spelling out the code of tradition as a whole, they even managed to psyche people into believing that even the very sight of the genitals is obscene.

But mostly and very damagingly they employed social/moral and religious interpretations of God intended and nature induced feelings to suit the prevailing social needs of that time and one important element was to ensnare a woman’s sexuality. To achieve this objective they used force of the body, force of mind and above all the force of guilt in a woman’s own mind which would be obviously the most powerful because civilisations always have a tendency to programme civilians to feel bad about whatever feels good. And then unable to deal with the rebellious frustrations which raise against those restrictive codes and also unable to ignore the heartaches and tragedies happening all around they blamed them on the failures of the individuals to abide by the code not realising that the actual failure was in the very code itself.

“It should never be what it is. It should be what it could be and what it should be,” said the philosopher Ayn Rand
Here “could be” is an aim while “should be” is a destination.

The more you desire, the more you can desire–and the more intensely you desire, even more intensely you can desire. In other words there’s is no limit to how much one can desire.

The commonest weakness of our race is our inability to rationalize our most primary instincts. A woman is not a property, and any who think otherwise are not men but tradesmen. Two bodies attract each other directly as the product of their nature driven instinct and inversely as the square of their psychological distance that they want to rapidly close in. It sounds like a rule of physics but it is actually the rule of propinquity which is the only true natural authority, which can and should govern the emotion of both romantic love and sexual desire.

But like many a woman due to her being programmed follows the social dictums by marrying one man and that I think is being barbaric to her very existence of her sexual being because she is being restricted from becoming the wealth of both herself and also the wealth of nature.

In the two choices that a woman has in life is that either she protects her sexuality like a property to donate it to her just one husband or invest it as a capital for personal gain. In the former she gives it to one person who will eventually tire of it and thereafter relegate her to become a baby making,raising and rearing machine and when those babies come out they in turn just use her as a life support for themselves and that too at the expense of squeezing out both her beauty and her sexuality.

The second choice a woman has is to invest her beauty and her sexuality like a capital, very much like how a man uses his physical power for dominance. The only true empowerment for a woman ever can only be when she can employ her sexuality as a powerful weapon to conquer what she desires. Sexuality is the only weapon which will never draw blood and ironically that’s where all the restrictions in societies crop up for the obvious reasons mentioned above.

The really horrific tragedy is that a a woman is made to feel deeply guilty about her own naturally valid desires and a man on the contrary takes a tremendous pride in those very same desires ..A sexually over active woman is called a slut and a sexually overactive man is called a stud ..My case rests

Source: RGV’s FB.

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